Wearing your pet's ashes in Puyallup: jewelry options
Around 1,300 dogs and cats die in Puyallup each year, by our estimate, and many families keep a little of the ashes to wear. Here's what pendants, glass and diamonds cost and how to get one filled safely.
- Less than a teaspoon of ashes per piece
- Water, heat and daily-wear advice
- Help comparing makers near Puyallup

Puyallup, Washington
Local maker or mail-in: the Puyallup picture
Because the fair is part of so many Puyallup childhoods, some families remember a show animal or family pet with ribbons, photos and a keepsake box alongside the ashes. You can combine an urn with a shadow box of halters, collars or tags. Ask the provider whether small keepsake portions are available. It keeps the whole story of the animal together in one place, and it gives visiting relatives something to hold and talk about.
For a garden memorial in the valley's heavy, wet soil, choose stone or bronze that won't sink or rot. Moss grows fast in the shade, so place a marker where you can brush it clean. A biodegradable urn under a native plant is another option on private land, especially for families with deep roots in the area. Mark the spot on a sketch of your yard.
Families in Puyallup often find the vet clinic is the most helpful local resource. Staff there have guided many owners through this and may know which crematory returns ashes promptly, which sells pendants and which will post a small portion straight to a jewelry maker so you don't have to handle it. Ask at the desk; it's a common question.
Puyallup's population is around 42,682, the 29th-largest of the 67 Washington communities we cover. Some of the providers who serve Puyallup are based about 9 miles away in Tacoma, the nearest larger centre, so collection times reflect that drive.
For a second opinion on price, Bonney Lake (6 miles), Tacoma (9 miles, a larger centre) and Federal Way (9 miles, a larger centre) are close enough that their providers cover Puyallup routinely. Two written quotes tell you more than any price list.
Our estimate
15,500
Estimated dog- or cat-owning households in Puyallup
How we calculated this
42,682 ÷ 2.5 = 17,073 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 15,500. Multi-pet homes count once.
Our estimate
1,300
Puyallup families who lose a dog or cat each year (estimate)
How we calculated this
15,500 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 1,300 a year. A floor, not a ceiling.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
The numbers above come from American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry and Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science, if you'd like to read the original sources.

Cremation habits in Washington
With about 79.1%[5] of people in Washington choosing cremation, the local market for memorial products is well developed, and that includes jewelry. You'll likely find crematories and funeral suppliers with a range of pendants and rings, sometimes the very same designs they offer for people. Use that familiarity: staff can usually tell you which closures hold up and which come back loose.
For the Washington figure we rely on Direct Cremate (citing CANA) (2024). Read it as a picture of local custom around death and remembrance in Puyallup rather than as pet data.
How the local climate affects fit, seals and finish
With no harsh season to plan around, the best time in Puyallup for scattering or planting with the remaining ashes is simply when the family can gather. Many people wear their new pendant for the first time that day. November is the month most likely to bring rain, so have a covered fallback if you choose it.
Gentle weather in Puyallup tempts people to wear a piece everywhere: the garden, the beach, the gym. That's where knocks happen. If you'll wear it hard, choose a flush design with no protruding screw, or a solid glass or stone piece, and save a delicate hollow pendant for quieter days.

What you'll likely pay, from steel to diamond
The headline price is rarely the final one. Chains are often extra: one maker's custom silver print charm is $143 before a silver chain adds about $59 to $79[6]. Gold-plated ash pendants run about $88 to $170[7] at a retailer where solid 14k starts near $1,300. Add filling, engraving and insured shipping, and ask any Puyallup seller for the delivered total, chain included.
We keep the detailed Washington price table on one page so it stays current: see Washington prices.

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Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Wearing ashes is your call; the rest has rules in Washington
Before you split the ashes, it helps to know what you'll do with the part that won't go into jewelry, because that's where Washington's rules come in. Scattering on land you don't own, burying in a shared garden and releasing ashes into water can each carry conditions. The piece you wear carries none.
The official Washington local government directory lists every county and city office, which is the quickest way to find who to ask in Puyallup.
The Washington page sets out who oversees pet cremation and what the state says about burial and scattering. Puyallup's own bylaws can sit on top of that, so ask before you dig.
Your order, one step at a time
- Set a small portion aside. Ask the crematory to pack a teaspoon separately, or take one from the urn yourself with a clean spoon over a sheet of paper.
- Decide who the pieces are for. Before ordering, find out how many people would like one, so the pieces match and the ash is portioned to suit.
- Choose a material that fits daily life. Steel or titanium for sensitive skin, glass for no leaks, sterling for a classic look, a diamond if permanence matters most.
- Pick local filling or mail-in. A Puyallup jeweler can fill and seal in person; a specialist elsewhere may offer more designs but means mailing ashes.
- Get a written price. Ask the quote to spell out what's covered: fill, seal, chain, engraving and the postage back to you.
- Seal and check. Confirm adhesive has gone on the screw thread, and look it over once more after you've worn it for a week.
Remembering your pet, in Puyallup and beyond
With so many families on South Hill in newer houses with modest yards, indoor memorials are the most common choice. A wooden or ceramic urn on the mantel, a framed print or a keepsake pendant all work. If you might move within a few years, choose something that packs easily. A shelf near family photos makes a natural spot, and small keepsake portions can go to grown children living elsewhere.
See what each option includes on our services page, try the free planning tools, read our guides and latest articles, or see how other readers answered in our polls. If you live between Puyallup and Seattle, Tacoma, Kent and Bellevue, either page applies. Every other community in Washington, and all of the United States, is listed too.
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Free tools to help you plan

Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.

Jewelry ash capacity guide
How much ash fits in pendants, rings and glass, and how many pieces one pet can fill.

Ashes sharing planner
Split ashes fairly between family members, keepsake urns and jewelry.
Questions people ask
Can a provider from a neighbouring town collect from Puyallup?
Usually yes. Bonney Lake is about 6 miles away, Tacoma is about 9 miles away and Federal Way is about 9 miles away, all inside a normal collection radius. Get the mileage written into the quote so there is no surprise on the day.
Will I have to travel to Tacoma to arrange things?
Not usually. Providers based in Tacoma (roughly 9 miles from Puyallup) collect from here as a matter of routine, and the paperwork is done by email or phone. If you want to be present for a witnessed cremation, that is when the drive matters.
When is the hardest time of year to arrange a burial in Puyallup?
There is no frozen-ground season here; average lows stay above freezing all year. The other pressure point is August, when highs around 78°F mean a body needs cooling and collecting quickly.
How many pet owners live in Puyallup?
By our estimate, about 15,500 households in Puyallup have at least one dog or cat, and around 1,300 are lost each year. We calculate this from the city's population of about 42,682, the average household size and national ownership and lifespan figures, so treat it as a floor rather than an exact count.
How much ash goes into a pendant?
Very little. A typical ashes pendant holds only a pinch, about a teaspoon at most[9], and ash-in-glass pieces use only about 1/8–1/2 tsp[10] of ashes (per one urn retailer's guide). That means even a small cat leaves enough for several pieces with plenty left for an urn. Our jewelry ash capacity guide shows how many pieces one pet can fill.
What metal should I choose if I have sensitive skin?
Titanium, niobium, platinum and nickel-free gold are the safest choices. Solid sterling silver suits most people but tarnishes. Surgical stainless steel is tough and inexpensive but contains some nickel, so very sensitive skin may react. If you can, try a sample from a Puyallup jeweler for a few hours before ordering a sealed piece.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] Washington had a 79.1% cremation rate in 2024, among the highest in the US. Direct Cremate (citing CANA), 2024.
- [6] A custom sterling silver actual-paw-print charm costs $143 before the chain (about $59–$79 for silver) and takes about 2 weeks to make. String of Jewels – Actual paw print necklace, 2026.
- [7] Solid 14k gold pet-ash pendants at Memorials.com cost $1,297.95–$4,749.95; gold-plated ones $87.95–$169.95. Memorials.com – Pet ashes necklaces, 2026.
- [8] The cheapest advertised memorial diamond costs about 8 times a typical sterling silver ashes pendant. Our estimate: $995 (EverDear colorless from) / $129 (Urns.com sterling silver median). How we calculate.
- [9] An ashes pendant holds only a pinch of cremated remains (the retailer says at most about a teaspoon; most pendants hold far less), and most come with a small funnel fill kit. Memorials.com – Pet ashes necklaces, 2026.
- [10] Ashes-in-glass pet memorials use only about 1/8 to 1/2 teaspoon of ashes. Funeral.com – Ashes in Glass for Pets, 2026.
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